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TRIGGER WARNING: This episode and article discusses consensual non-consent. Consensual non-consent, or rape play, involves consenting adults pretending not to consent to sexual activities, and may be triggering to some people, especially survivors of sexual assault. Please use your discretion as to whether or not this content is right for you.

Is the reality of rape play as hot as the fantasy? Time to check in with the Wives on  homework! 

Have you ever fantasized about being ravished by a handsome burglar?  Did you grow up reading “bodice ripper” romance novels and want to play out the scenes that you read?  Do you sometimes hope your trusted partner will take what he (or she) wants, no matter how hard you protest or struggle?  If yes, then you might be into Consensual Non-Consent. 

In this episode, the Wives report back on their sexy homework with CNC. 

But first, check out this episode’s cocktail, the Apple Bomb (be careful, this drink is deceptively strong!), while Kat shares her Hot Tale.  After exploring  intense CNC  experiences, Kat and Mr. Kat enjoy a sweet and slippery night with LOTS of Coconut Oil!


Then, the Wives share their sexy homework on Consensual Non-Consent. 

Ams and Mr. Ams tries a “midnight intruder” scene, with mixed results, but has better luck with dirty talk and impromptu forced pleasure play.

Kat and Mr. Kat, in the meantime, plan an elaborate punishment and forced exhibitionism scene in a high end hotel, including a surprise visit from a stranger!

Finally, it’s Just the Tips if you want to rape play with a trusted partner. 

A very special thanks to Abbey Snider for editing assistance on this episode!  You can check out Abbey’s podcast, Sweet Baby Gay at

want to learn more about cnc?

Consensual non-consent, otherwise known as CNC, rape fantasy or rape play, involves consenting adults pretending to engage in forced, coerced or non-consensual sex.

CNC is not one-size fits all. It’s not even just rape play. CNC includes:

  • Rape Fantasy – a person is forced to perform sexual acts
  • Somnophilia – sexual acts while one person is asleep
  • Kidnapping Fantasy – someone is abducted and/or held against their will
  • Blackmail Fantasy – the “victim” must do as the blackmailer demands to avoid unpleasant circumstances
  • Selling Fantasy – a person is sold for sexual or manual labor against their will
  • Hypnosis – A person is hypnotized and used for erotic purposes

As with all the kinks we explore, consent is the key difference between a healthy exploration of sex and a crime.

Also, as with most of the kinks we explore on 2HW, there is no one right way to do this. The Wives deconstruct the components of this type of play and explore each element so that, for any woman who is interested in this kink wants to explore, she can take what she wants and leave what she doesn’t want.

Because of the sensitive nature of this kink, this episode focuses on our mission of exploring in a safe, female-identifying only space. If you are a male listener and this turns you on, you might be shit-outa-luck if you don’t have an enthusiastically interested partner. We highly recommend that you don’t push an agenda for this kink. Your partner is either enthusiastically interested or not.

But for women who are interested in exploring CNC, hopefully by the end of this episode, you feel a little less alone in your interest, a little more normal, and a little more equipped to explore it in a safe way.


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